Anxiety in Hospice

There is a man who cleans the floors here (occasionally there may be a woman), he is

often very old and sometimes very young but he is always mopping, always waxing, and always

indifferent. The walls are white here, the modern walls harbor small wave-like designs of opaque

colors but the usual patterns are simply speckles of blues and greens—colors to keep all patients

cool, calm, and collected even while bleeding—the skirting boards often vary from white to pale

 The chairs are old and the cushions are flat and outworn with rips and tears in the fabric,

often missing bits and pieces of cotton, and they hide near the vending machines which are

constantly restocked. There are tables in the vicinity with year-old magazines which lie in ruins

due to the constant handling of random passersby.

People are not happy here; people cry here, people hate this place, they are sometimes

waiting in the ICU staring down at their shoes, in prayer maybe, with folded hands and bowed

heads.

People create a slow blue jazz rhythm that hums continually throughout the waiting

room. As the husband taps his fingers on his arm rest his foot becomes the bass of the song that

vibrates through everyone.

Couples huddle together whispering things like “How long?” and “What now?”

The corridors reek of piss and random antiseptics; depending on which floor is entered

there are usually two overwhelmingly huge windows down the end of each corridor. These

corridors encompass many sectors where patients lie on beds with needles in veins and ECG

electrodes plastered to their skin. Silence passes through the mouths of most loved ones leaving

those in waiting nearly devastated.

My boyfriend’s grandmother is in Hospice and we are waiting for the doctors to tell us

good news—any news. His father bears red and tired eyes. His mother cups head in her hands.

Out of five aunts and uncles only one showed up—he is bald and hides his head under a baseball

cap as he checks the time in his cell phone.

When his grandmother finally wakes up, she looks around at her children and her

grandchildren. She searches the room of uneasy faces. As she takes a breath she coughs and

hacks up phlegm that drips onto her hospital gown. I look away only for a moment as her

daughter wipes it away and attempts to give her a sip of water. She protests and says in Spanish

that she can do it herself. With shaky hands she holds onto the cup and takes a sip of water and

eventually spills the entirety of the cups content on herself. Her daughter swears in English and

comes over to clean her mother’s neckline, water continues to spill everywhere.

The janitor could be seen mopping the floors from outside of his grandmother’s room.

Swishing his mop as he quietly passed us by. My boyfriend stares at the speckled floor in a daze

as his grandmother is being attended to. He has this stressed looked upon his face, his eyes dance

from each of his family members, his right knee bounces crazily, and his hands are tightly

clasped together.

When the cleanup is done, his grandma takes a deep breath and looks around again. She

notices that I am sitting in the corner next to her grandson. She recognizes me and says ‘Hello,’

and asked me how I am. I tell her I am okay and ask her how she is feeling. She shrugs her

shoulders. That is as far as the conversation goes simply because she can only speak Spanish and

I can only speak English.

Soon enough visiting hours are over and we have to leave. I kiss her cheek and tell her

goodnight. As my boyfriend and I walk through the hospital corridors. The music starts to play

as we leave the building. Every moment of silence is amplified by the echo of our footsteps,

which are in sync. Each sigh that my boyfriend exhales, I inhale it with a hearty blue rhythm.

The sound of the sadness courses through our veins as we tiptoe towards our exit, humming in

the elevator, and chiming when we reach the next floor. Blue hues and blue harmonies follow us

everywhere we go. We walk down the hallway into the lobby where we return our ‘guests’

badges and wait for the attendant to sign us out. Out misery, out of the hospital.

There is a dining area where people have gathered, older and younger faces wait on an

assembly line to pick up food to pass the time. The cashier ‘ka-chings’ to the waltz like music of

his customer’s footsteps as the move forward, grab a tray, grab a drink, pay and walk away. I

watch them from a far; time has slowed for me as the desk attendant goes through her

paperwork. Men and women drag out noisy plastic chairs that screech across the tiles on the

floor. Almost reminding me of the sound of trumpets, the play left, they play right. When the

patrons scoot in the table moves like a heavy drum and there trays scrape like maracas. I begin to

feel as if the music isn’t so sad anymore. It has become lively as the people are preparing to add

food to their stomachs. Children jingle as they see their meals and parents smile promisingly.

A man walks past us and exhales a heavy breath that returns me to the song of sadness.

The woman in the gift shop that stands behind the counter holds a smile. As her customer makes

a purchase the smile is gone. The woman leaving the gift store is holding a teddy bear that has a

velvet red heart in its hands; it reads “I Love You!” The janitor of the lobby stands talking to a

security guard, about what, I couldn’t say, but neither of them was smiling. A nurse walks into

the building with a bag that reeks of ethnic food; the plastic fibers of her bag remind me of a coat

being zipped. Her footsteps are slow, the janitor speaks quietly, and the sadness hovers.

 My boyfriend wakes me from my illusion with a tap on the arm. I look at him and say

thank you to the hostess. We begin to walk out the sliding entrance doors that cry as they say

goodbye. They need to be sprayed with WD-40. He holds my hand only for a moment and then

lets it go. His fingers, sweaty as they slip away and we walk to the walkway outside the hospital,

the sky is a dark indigo because it has been raining. I turn back to stare at the building as he

walks slowly to the car.

The lights hardly ever shut off here nor are they ever dim, it would be wrong to ever dare

to compare this place to a 24-hour 7-Eleven because no one is ever happy here, the true brain

freezes exist here, the true drooling sensation is found here, and the late nights are inevitable.

The nights are more lackluster than the next.

Descending peaks are displayed on heart monitors and the repetitive song they play

ricochet off the walls reaching those who are in states of anxiety.

 In this building that is miles high with more than two thousand windows, there is a

constant rhythm to beginnings and endings; rainy days do not make it any better and the silence

is never comforting yet everyone seems to raise their heads when the nurse arrives—the

anticipation is killing them.

However, happiness is born here.

The waiting room alone is home to many things, but in the end the room is a patch work

of metaphors that can only be unraveled during a time of need.

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